Please explore these links for wives and significant others of of crossdressers, transvestites, and other folks along the transgendered spectrum. I've chosen them because I think they are among the best resources available.
If your partner is, or thinks he might be, a transsexual (wants to become a woman full time, and/or have surgery), please also check out the Transsexual Links page.
Also, please explore my transgender bookstore to find great books that can help you learn more about this life!
TGSO1: A list for the genetic female partners of transgendered men.
Psychology of Crossdressing
Page for their Wives and Girlfriends
for Wives of Crossdressers, CDSO